Understand Fall to Rise, Before You Regret
Everyone likes to rise in their life but when you experience fall you feel a lot of pain and doubt. The process of accepting fall is difficult. You need a lot of guts, one who actually experiences the situation goes through tough times in life. They start feeling low in confidence, shame, depression and embarrassment towards life. But it’s important to understand fall to rise, before you regret.
Stumbling is not bad, I remember, when I used to find difficulty in walking, my mom motivated me everytime by saying, “there is nothing wrong in falling, till the time you will not experience fall you will not enjoy the rise in your life”. And I must say this is very true what she said to me, when you achieve success after all the struggles in life, that moment makes you feel on top of the world. You become more confident, more agile, and more dynamic.
“Sometimes the harder you fall, the stronger you rise.”
Why it is important to understand fall to rise again?
Every coin has two sides. In times we experience failure or success; mainly we accept the current phase and overlook the other. By keeping trust that every problem has another side that helps to open many ways to look at life differently.
You should believe, if you are failing that’s not the end, the other side of this situation is you getting another chance to try again and that too with some experience and this time you will not start with zero as a fresher.
“Waves are inspiring not because they rise and fall, but because each time they fall, they never fail to rise again.”
Adverse effect of fall on people
There are many such instances when people continuously grow in their life, they start fearing failure. And time comes when it becomes very difficult for them to accept any failure. This leads to a lot of mental stress and poor health conditions like depression, low self-esteem, low confidence, and also hypertension or stroke in the worst case. Because of this it has become very important for us to know how to deal with this situation.
Some of the best ways to deal which makes success worth after every fall
- Ignore others
When we pay attention to people’s reaction we fear a lot. You need to stop worrying and comparing yourself to others, what they will feel and how they will react. Your journey is what you’re going to write for yourself; others are only an audience to read and watch for their own entertainment. Once you will achieve success, criticism will convert into appreciation, it’s just a matter of time.
- Be Confident and your own supporter
Confidence plays an important role. If you have strong belief, May what comes you can do it! then nothing can stop you. Your positive approach towards life can make anything or everything possible. Although others’ motivation and support energizes us, that’s luxury in life, not a requirement. Do encourage your own self for small-small achievement that can help you to find strength and determination to keep on going.
- Accept failure
Remember if you will not fall you will never learn. Pre-decided mind sets make you pessimistic; it limits your mind. In this condition you lose all hopes and can also be a mental victim. When you accept failure you learn more and which helps you to perform even better from the last attempt. Understanding every failure is a new lesson, so accept it.
- Remember not to give up
Do not allow any situation to dominate upon you. Your road to success might not be the same as others. That’s OK, everyone’s situation is different. You haven’t failed until you quit. So keep the process on its difficult but with strategy and will it can be done.
- The fun of victory comes from defeat
Most people want to taste success without hustle. When you start achieving easily in life you stop valuing things and over a time that achievement feels worthless. The more you hustle the more you grow. And you feel a great sense of achievement when victory comes from defeat. The fun of achievement lies in process, so enjoy it.
- Rise and shine
What makes us perfect is our imperfection. Remember the first and foremost important thing we live, we laugh, we cry, we learn, we make mistakes, we fall but we rise and shine too because we are human beings.
“Don’t be sorry, when you fall, you rise up with even more determination.”